AAshley WilesPenticton, BC ยท Virtual

Parents of Athletes

You want to help, not add pressure

Most sport parents I meet are doing their best in a system that gives them no guidance. You see your kid struggling and every option feels like it might make it worse. There is a middle path, and it's learnable.

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What parents ask me

  • What do I say in the car after a bad game?
  • How do I encourage without adding pressure?
  • Should they push through this, or is it time to stop?
  • How do I handle a coach situation I disagree with?
  • My child is so hard on themselves , how do I help?
  • Is this normal nerves or something more?
  • How do we talk about tryouts, cuts and disappointment?
  • How do I manage my own anxiety on the sidelines?

Ways I work with parents

Parent consultation sessions

One-off or occasional sessions focused on you: language, boundaries, the car ride home, and how to be the steady one.

Alongside your athlete's work

When I'm working with your child, we set up what gets shared and check in on progress and themes.

Counselling for you

Sometimes the sport stress is sitting on top of your own anxiety, grief or burnout. That's welcome here too.

Club and team parent nights

Workshops for parent groups on supporting young athletes without becoming another source of pressure.

A place to start tonight

Lead with connection before feedback: "I loved watching you play" and then let them choose whether to talk about the game. Ask questions instead of giving reviews. Separate their performance from your approval, out loud and often. Small changes in the car ride home shift a whole season.

Your athlete needs one thing from you more than technical feedback: the certainty that your care doesn't move with the scoreboard.

Book a free 15-minute consultation

A short, free call to figure out the right kind of support.

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